Why Your Man Ignores You And Watches Porn With The Volume On Instead

Why Your Man Ignores You And Watches Porn With The Volume On Instead

Ever caught your man watching porn?  Were you embarrassed?  Frustrated?  Outright ANGRY!

If so, you’re not alone.  The fact is, most men watch porn…and most women don’t understand why.  That lack of understanding often leads to negative self-evaluation which can do a lot of damage to a woman’s own self-worth.

Am I ugly?  Are my breasts too small?  Is my butt too big?  Am I getting fat?  Am I not good enough in bed?  Did I do something wrong?  Am I just not sexy anymore?

Those questions can be extremely damaging to a woman’s self-worth.  All you want is to experience that throbbing lust, passion, and emotional and sexual connection every time you make love…the way it used to be when you first got together and everything was “hot and heavy”.

You crave more passion.  More connection.  And, yet, here you are, crying into your pillow because your man is getting off to porn instead of ravaging your body and making love to you like you want.

So the question becomes why?  Why is your man getting off to porn and what can you do to turn his focus back to YOU?

I can tell you right now, it’s not because those women in the porn videos are stunning beauties.  It’s not because they have big breasts.  It’s not because your man thinks you’re ugly.

Nope, your man is getting off on dirty talk.  Other women’s dirty talk.

It’s rare that you’ll ever find a man watching porn with the volume off.  Why?

Because sounds and words matter when you’re making love…especially to a man.

Felicity Keith, author of the Language of Desire: Dirty Words To Make Him Yours, urges women to understand two things if you want to use words to get a man to focus 100% of his sexual attention on you.  These are:

1.) “Trigger Words” Interrupt The Pattern Of How He Sees You

Felicity says…

You can use these trigger words to flip the switch, and he’ll see you as the vibrant, luscious, devoted and sexy woman he first fell in love with. Scientists, Marketers and Psychologists have known for years about the power of the “pattern interrupt.” Yet for some reason, only recently, people like me have figured out how to use “pattern interrupts” in the bedroom. (Or on the kitchen counter. Or wherever you want your man to “take you.”)

 

2.) Women’s Voices Are Comforting To The Male Mind

As Felicity explains…

“This is backed by science too. Dr. Melanie Shoup-Knox and Dr. Nate Piptone of Adams State University, Colorado conducted a study that determined women’s voices actually make men’s skin tingle with electrical activity. So yes, when you speak to your man the right way, you can truly electrify his body.”

But it’s not only about the words.  It’s also how you say them.  The trick is to combine the right sexual trigger words with the power of your voice to reprogram your man’s subconscious brain.  That’s how you’ll get his attention back where it belongs, on YOU!

Felicity put up a terrific video to show you exactly how to pull his attention away from porn and focus it exclusively on you.  Be sure and watch it here.

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